Step 1 of 12 · Quarrels, Feuds and Making Peace
Do not strive with a worse man
Why this step
Stanza 124 gives the first rule: do not strive in three words with a man who is worse than you, because the worst often lays the best low. The entry reads it today as advice not to be dragged into a contest with someone who has nothing to lose. The trail starts with the question of which quarrels are worth entering at all.
The text, stanza 124
124.
I counsel thee, Stray-Singer, accept my counsels,
they will be thy boon if thou obey'st them,
they will work thy weal if thou win'st them:
strive not in three words with a man worse than thee;
oft the worst lays the best one low.
- Olive Bray (editor and translator), The Elder or Poetic Edda, Commonly Known as Sæmund’s Edda, part I: The Mythological Poems (opens in a new tab) (1908), stanza 124 (Bray’s numbering) Rights: Public domain. Published in 1908, so in the public domain in the United States. Text as edited online by D. L. Ashliman, Folklore and Mythology Electronic Texts, University of Pittsburgh.
From the Lorebook
Do not argue with a man who is worse than you; the worst often lays the best low.